Recently another sweet friend of mine's husband (lets call him Mujahid) has gotten a 2nd wife. And it really just makes me want to vomit and then pistol whip him. lol (not that violent for real) But all jokes aside it's like these brothers (some) are so freaking selfish it kills me. And people have the nerve to use the excuse that they are safeguarding themselves from sin because they have needs . WTF?? Seriously if a man is that pressed out to get some action he gotta marry another woman to handle his needs then he NEEDS to be fasting more and helping control his horny urges. He NEEDS to be working on his deen thats what he needs to do. Women have needs to and we need our husbands to be at home not trying to add people to the team. I'm sorry im on a little tangent but this whole trifecta situation infuriates me. Especially when I know the wife personally and know she isn't a slacker wife. His wife is so sweet, and beautiful and awesome. He really lucked up to even get a sister like her in the first place. Ungratefulness is so ugly.
Not only that for the 2nd wives out there who are married under this pretense of "needs" and avoiding sin isn't that kinda an F'up up way to look at your role. I mean no offense to anyone out there. But i would feel personally offended if my husband told me the main reason he wanted to marry me was so he wouldn't commit sin. Like is that all they see in their 2nd wife? a Jumpoff? someone to handle their needs? If so then that is really messed up for some guys to look at second marriages this way. And people wonder why polygamy doesn't work. I talked to this brother after he married this girl and he told me he married his 1st wife for a life partner and family ect. But the primary reason for 2nd was for basically sex more often. I was like ok WTF is wrong with you. Do o'l girl know this? If so what was she thinking? Was she also smoking crack when she said yes. Did ..yall have a crack cocaine party to celebrate the good times? I mean really the stuff that comes out of folks mouth is ..woa all I have to say.
I know I say some wild stuff , but it is what it is. I am not some perfect muslima by any stretch of my imagination..lol no reason to front on a blog or anywhere else. I keep it real , it is what it is. But back to my scenario I really wish I could do a nationwide..no worldwide PSA (public service announcement) lol and tell folks to steer clear of polygamy. Like how they have the say no to drugs campaign they need to have a say no to polygamy lol. Ok maybe I am a little bias, maybe a little hater-ish right now..oh well if you dont like it kick rocks. LOL. Just kidding Will try to work on my lingo in the future and be nicer..Hope everyone out there is doing awesome i have missed blogging. But its been a lot going on. Me & Denise had an exchange of some nice choice words. She called my Shaytan among other things..I called her well i dont have enough room on this blog to go into all that. Lets just say it wasnt nice and we are officially arch enemies! yes mission accomplished..lmao. on that note i will end with a song. (Dedicated to Hassan and brother Mujahid)
Let's have a toast for the douchebags
Let's have a toast for the assholes
Let's have a toast for the scumbags
Every one of them that I know
Let's have a toast for the jerk-offs
That'll never take work off
Baby, I got a plan
Runaway fast as you can
