Bring sexy back

Whats good world? Often after people get married and get "comfortable" with each other, slowly but surly they slip into chill mode. Yeah, its nice to be able to be yourself around your partner,BUT yourself doesn't mean you have to dress and look like a homeless orphan LOL This is what I call having a case of the uglies. I mean everyone has their share of bad hair days, nobody is perfect. But as muslimas you NEVER want to let yourself go, next thing you know you'll be walking around the house looking like Ceiley. (color purple need i say more?) This week has  been SO AWESOME. I really feel like I am falling in love with Hassan all over again. <3 So since I am feeling all warm and fuzzy I decided now is a good time as ever to capture that awesomeness and share it with the world. Just a some tips ..people can thank me later. In marriage its natural for relationships to go through ups and downs. But even when you are "down" you still wanna look as fly and fabulous as ever. Polygamy can cause some initial stress as with any new unfamiliar situation in life. Chocolate therapy is fun but when you start packing on the pounds that is no longer fun or sexy. Well, unless you were previously anorexic which, if this is the case you have some serious issues that chocolate could never solve.

So this brings me to.. bring sexy back tip #1 Give your body healthy fuel regularly. A sugar high is amazing (sporadically) just don't overdose on the donuts and you'll be fine. BSB tip #2 Do your hair. Regardless of how your hair is there are always ways to style it to make it look better than bedhead. Get some curlers, rollers, flat irons, styling spray, braid it , switch it up keep him guessing. BSB tip #3 Maybe she's born with it maybe its maybelline. A little makeup can go a long way. I LOVE, love, LOVE makeup. Now I already know there are some muslimas out there who are against makeup, so this tip..well I guess its not for you then. But for those that love it, embrace your inner makeup artist. Watch a couple a youtube videos get fancy if you want. Even if you just do it around the home looking cute will make you feel so much better. Even a little Kohl and mascara and lip gloss can make a big difference! BSB tip #4 wear cute around the house clothes. Shorts, tank top, sundress, cute velor sweatsuit...any outfit that says "I'm effortlessly sexy and I know it." Another BSB #5 that "slave2Allah" reminded me of the other day is smell amazing. Get some new perfume/oil. Scent is the strongest sense tied to memory. So you want your hubbie to think about you when your not with him, give him a reason to. I love , love, love, Calvin Klein Euphoria omg smells so good. BSB tip #6 Get some new sleepwear. That's self explanatory no need to elaborate. Your man will appreciate that. BSB tip #7 Oh, I almost forgot, get off your butt once in awhile and workout. You cant bring sexy back if your still toting around 50 lbs of pregnancy weight from a kid you had 17 years ago. No offense to the thick sistas out there, thickness is nice. But overweight can also lead to many health problems when you start tipping the scale. Just saying a little cardio or a little yoga can go along way. BSB #8 Lose the attitude. No husband will ever find nagging, annoying, ghetto-hoodtastic, whiny, or psycho behavior sexy. And last but not least tip #9. Be confident, confidence so sexy. If you do not think you are awesome and sexy then chances are neither will he.

Here is a hadith to back up what I am saying just in case you love your homeles-orphan look and see no reason to change it. lol
HADITH 37 Rasulullah said: "The best of wealth is a righteous woman who pleases her husband when he sees her; she obeys whenever he commands her and when her husband is absent she protects her chastity and respect"